Showing posts with label anger. Show all posts
Showing posts with label anger. Show all posts

Friday, December 11, 2015

It is easier for God to hold back anger than mercy.

Every year, people grumble about preparing for Christmas. There is so much shopping to do; so much baking to do; so much card-writing to do; so much decorating to do; etc. Yet, all the grumbling aside, we would never think of not doing any of it. We humans are a strange lot!

The problem is not Christmas. The problem is that we are not consistent in the way we celebrate God greatest gift to the world.



Seeking the Lord Jesus who is the face of the Father’s mercy should be a way of life for believers. Like the patriarch Jacob, we are often surprised to discover that we have been in the Presence of the Lord, even though we were not aware of it (Cf. Gen 28:17).

Learning to extend the mercy of God to all we meet, year-round, will fill us with joy, serenity and peace. Celebrating the mercy that God extends to us in Christ allows us to love others as we have been loved.

This lifestyle of extending mercy and celebrating newness of life in Christ becomes the bridge that connects us to God and to one another. It opens our hearts to the hope of being loved and being capable of loving others.

 As the Church prepares to enter into the extraordinary jubilee year, let us dedicate ourselves to extending to others the mercy that God has extended to us.

We live a life build on the Rock that is God, Who is ever-faithful and Whose mercy is everlasting.

The Eternal Word, Who took flesh of the Ever-virgin Mary stands at the door of mercy and extends His healing touch to all who would cross the threshold. Those who trust in God shall receive from Him grace that will transform them into the likeness of His beloved Son. The Lord is the refuge of sinners Himself and the dwelling place of all who call upon His name.

God’s forgiveness knows no bounds. In the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ, God makes even more evident his love and its power to destroy all sin and hate.

The breath of the Holy Spirit gives newness of life wherever it blows.

Reconciliation with God is made possible through the paschal mystery and the mediation of the Church.

Thus God is always ready to forgive, and he never tires of forgiving in ways that are continually new and surprising. If there is a shortage in forgiveness, it is because we have gotten tired of asking for it.

In the Letter to the Romans we read: “There is a great difference between Adam’s sin and God’s gracious gift. For if the many died by the sin of one man, how much more did God’s grace and the gift that came by the grace of one man, Jesus Christ, superabound to many” (Rom. 5:15).

The grace and mercy of God, made tangible in the person of the Son totally outweighs the offense.

Saint Augustine, says: “It is easier for God to hold back anger than mercy”.

Let us not be afraid to approach the throne of mercy. Let us not grow tired of asking for forgiveness nor of extending forgiveness to anyone who asks it of us. When we perform random acts of mercy, we are making visible and tangible the power and the glory of the God.

Father Jerome Machar OSCO

Sunday, February 23, 2014

Jesus Raised the Bar

Jesus said to his disciples:
“Do not think that I have come to abolish the law or the prophets.
I have come not to abolish but to fulfill.
Amen, I say to you, until heaven and earth pass away,
not the smallest letter or the smallest part of a letter
will pass from the law,
until all things have taken place.
Therefore, whoever breaks one of the least of these commandments
and teaches others to do so
will be called least in the kingdom of heaven.
But whoever obeys and teaches these commandments
will be called greatest in the kingdom of heaven.
I tell you, unless your righteousness surpasses
that of the scribes and Pharisees,
you will not enter the kingdom of heaven.

“You have heard that it was said to your ancestors,
You shall not kill; and whoever kills will be liable to judgment.
But I say to you,
whoever is angry with his brother
will be liable to judgment;
and whoever says to his brother, ‘Raqa,’
will be answerable to the Sanhedrin;
and whoever says, ‘You fool,’
will be liable to fiery Gehenna.
Therefore, if you bring your gift to the altar,
and there recall that your brother
has anything against you,
leave your gift there at the altar,
go first and be reconciled with your brother,
and then come and offer your gift.
Settle with your opponent quickly while on the way to court.
Otherwise your opponent will hand you over to the judge,
and the judge will hand you over to the guard,
and you will be thrown into prison.
Amen, I say to you,
you will not be released until you have paid the last penny.

“You have heard that it was said,
You shall not commit adultery.
But I say to you,
everyone who looks at a woman with lust
has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
If your right eye causes you to sin,
tear it out and throw it away.
It is better for you to lose one of your members
than to have your whole body thrown into Gehenna.
And if your right hand causes you to sin,
cut it off and throw it away.
It is better for you to lose one of your members
than to have your whole body go into Gehenna.

“It was also said,
Whoever divorces his wife must give her a bill of divorce.
But I say to you,
whoever divorces his wife -  unless the marriage is unlawful -
causes her to commit adultery,
and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.

“Again you have heard that it was said to your ancestors,
Do not take a false oath,
but make good to the Lord all that you vow.
But I say to you, do not swear at all;
not by heaven, for it is God’s throne;
nor by the earth, for it is his footstool;
nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King.
Do not swear by your head,
for you cannot make a single hair white or black.
Let your ‘Yes’ mean ‘Yes,' and your ‘No’ mean ‘No.’
Anything more is from the evil one.” (Matthew 5: 17-37)

Head of Christ by Rembrandt
We hear this Gospel and we go, “Whoooooa,” because, man, I’m in trouble. This Gospel is about me. Jesus is explaining what the commandments mean, and he is doing such an important thing in this preaching.

The people of Israel followed the law by the letter. But they did not let it enter their hearts. They were following the letter of the law. We can explain it this way. Think of a teen who has just gotten his driver’s license and now has the keys to the car. He thinks, “Whooee! Freedom!” Mom gives him the keys, and he hops in the car with his friend and, as he’s about to close the door, she calls after him, “Be home by 9 o’clock!” “OK,” he hollers back. Then he closes the door, revs up the motor, and says to his friend, “She didn’t say a.m. or p.m. I’ll be back by 9 o’clock for sure.”

That teen is worried about keeping the letter of the law and not about the spirit of the law. Technically he is correct, but only by the letter of what Mom said. Mom is interested in teaching the teen responsibility, how to be a responsible person. And all he is concerned about is how can I do what Mom says and still do what I want?

God tries to reorder our hearts. He is concerned about our hearts that are ripped apart by sin. We might be fulfilling the law. But where are our hearts? We tend to get trapped by our society that is so confident that Jesus wants us to just do what is good and it’s okay. It’s okay to break a couple of laws as long if you are really hurting anyone, never mind what the Bible says. People who say that have never read the Bible. They have never read these words that Jesus preached. I have people come to the sin bin and tell me, “Father, I’m not so bad. I never murdered anyone.” What type of measure of righteousness are we living by if the bar you measure your life by is murder? Jesus came to raise the bar.

I have to say that I am guilty of this for that sin in my life. The fifth commandment says, “Thou shall not kill.” Jesus raises the bar. Jesus says that anyone who is angry with his brother commits a sin against the fifth commandment. We don’t refrain from killing just to maintain life. We need to realize that human life is a gift from God, and we are all children of God. We do not degrade a child of God. We treat that person as God’s child, with love and respect.

The seventh commandment says. ”Thou shalt not commit adultery.”  Jesus raises the bar. He says that anyone who looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery in his heart. Jesus is saying, “Don’t even go there in your thoughts, in your hearts.” God made marriage so that we can experience unconditional love for another person. The marriage bond is a sign of the union between God and his Church. Marriage is a sacrament in which men and women can come to be like Christ for each other and for others. Marriage is more than just having children. Marriage helps us to know the love of God, the faithfulness of God, and who He is.

See, Jesus is making each of the commandments deeper. We need to understand the spirit behind the commandments as well as the letter of the commandments, the letter of the law. We need to fear hell. This is not a popular topic. We like to talk about entering the kingdom of heaven, and that is our goal. But we can exchange heaven for doing things our own way on earth. Christ is not going to force heaven on us. Hell is a reality. Not only those who kill are going to go to hell. At Fatima Our Lady showed the children a vision of hell, and people were falling into it like snowflakes into a fire. The Blessed Mother was weeping because of this. We need to take heed. We have nothing to fear, because God has a remedy for hell. If we are receiving the sacraments, Confession and Eucharist, these are the remedies to going to hell and to help us attain salvation.

What was the main sin of the scribes and Pharisees? They were keeping the law. They said, “Look at me. I am the keeper of the law. I do everything right.” The scribes and Pharisees were righteous. The Lord says to us that we cannot be prideful about keeping the law. Righteousness is not enough. He wants us not to be prideful. Jesus said, “Unless your righteousness surpasses that of the scribes and Pharisees you cannot get to the kingdom of heaven.” Now how am I going to surpass the righteousness of the scribes and Pharisees? They were keeping the law perfectly. But we need to surpass them. How? Are we doomed?

Not at all. We need to humble ourselves enough to say, “I know what the law is, and I still messed up. I need God’s mercy.” We need to get beyond the idea of the teenage Pharisee and follow after the Lord with an undivided heart. A few thoughts of a fiery hell can go a long way, not that God wants to intimidate us but that we understand that God is serious. Jesus is telling us how serious God is in these Gospel passages. Do I want to go to heaven? No one is above being damned to hell. Are we trying to follow God by our own version of the law? Or are we trying to follow the law that God gave us?


– Father Jacob Meyer, Visitor, Confraternity of Penitents